Writings

Seasoned travelers

We believe we’re seasoned travelers, knowing how to pack for and travel the roadways of change. We pride ourselves in our critical thinking and decision-making skills, life experience and self-reliance abilities.

Finding joy

Greetings on the cusp of Summer Solstice - offering the longest day of sunlight on June 20th and hoping it brings you much joy during this time of world-wide revelations.

Welcome to Compass

Joyous greetings from my new company, ALLwaysJoy, llc. You are receiving this communiqué as an honored client, colleague or dear friend—one who has added value to my life.

Finding Your Voice

St. Louis Park's Mary Schoessler offers coaching and healing for life's toughest moments.

Sheets of Sleep

What’s on your bed matters.

A clean sheets ritual is an imperative part of my life upon leaving town for a few days. There is something calming, inviting and reassuring to return home and crawl into a bed of clean, yet to be slept in, crisp sheets. Stripping my bed and replacing the sheets is the first task done following morning coffee on departure day.

Anxiety Notes: My Saxophone Plays No More

My experience.

Babies cry when picked up by a stranger, a mother sits near her new born ducklings, shielding them from expected predatory threats, storm sirens warn everyone to run for cover, ambulance sirens wail at drivers to pull over and stop immediately.

Let’s Talk

Why talking about hardship matters.

“Sit down. Let’s talk.”

Often, perhaps too often, I’ve been told I talk too much. Then, when I sit quietly, listening, giving others the space to talk, I’m asked, “What’s wrong? You’re not engaging. How come you’re so quiet?”

Charged Chutzpa

Supreme self-confidence.

“Are you in charge? Charge ahead. What do you charge? I need a charge. You’re in charge now. Can you charge for that? I thought you were in charge. I charged it. If I were in charge, this wouldn’t have happened. It’ll work, once it gets charged.”